Family Minute with Dr. Bill Maier
Sixty seconds of positive parenting from Focus on the Family
July 3, 2009:
True Independence
Our founding fathers worked long and hard to create a fair and balanced government. Today we enjoy the fruits of their labor here in America. On this Fourth of July, what does true independence mean to you?
July 2, 2009:
A Comedy of Errors
If you are looking for love, you may be searching in the wrong places. Watching romantic comedy movies can serve up unrealistic expectations. Why should you avoid romantic films if you are trying to find your one true love?
July 1, 2009:
Getting Past the Past
Intimacy with someone before you meet your spouse can prove to be a sensitive issue. If you are preparing for marriage, it’s important to be honest with each other about your old relationships. Learn how you and your spouse-to-be can move on from the mistakes of the past.
June 30, 2009:
When Babies Cry
When babies cry, it’s their way of telling us what they need. As parents, it’s important to know what each cry sounds like and what it means. Learn how to decipher and understand the cries of your baby.
June 29, 2009:
Chop Shopping Expenses
Taking stock of how you spend your money is the first step to saving it. Being in debt can be stressful for everyone in your family. But there is something you can do. We’ll share some pointers on how you can cut shopping expenses and save hundreds of dollars a year.
June 26, 2009:
Quitting Caffeine
Up to ninety percent of adult Americans consume caffeine every day. Knowing these high numbers, it may not be surprising that many people get hooked. Find out how you can cure your caffeine addiction.
June 25, 2009:
The Problem of Cutting
Psychologists can it “self-mutilation”, but teens call it “cutting” and it’s becoming more popular with young people every year. It’s far more dangerous then we might understand and it shouldn’t be ignored. What can you do if you discover your teenager has been “cutting”?
June 24, 2009:
Planned Sleepovers
Kids love sleepovers, even if they don’t involve a lot of sleeping! Summertime can be a perfect opportunity for your kids to invite some friends over for a night. What should you know before hosting a summer sleepover extravaganza?
June 23, 2009:
A Healthy Courtship
Romances can begin in a frenzy full of butterflies. However, if you want your relationship to flourish and not fizzle, there are some things to know. We’ll tell you how you can experience a healthy dating relationship without smothering each other.
June 22, 2009:
Competitive Parenting
We all want to think our kids are the best at everything…the best eater, the best talker. But the truth is most babies develop at the very same rate. Learn how to avoid being a competitive parent when it comes to your little bundle of joy.
June 19, 2009:
Father/Son Hobbies
A father’s influence in a boy’s life can’t be overstated. That’s why it’s so important to look for opportunities to spend time with your son. We’ll share some ways that dads can bond with their boys and strengthen the relationship like never before.
June 18, 2009:
The Cost of Cohabiting
Living together as unmarried parents with two separate sets of kids can prove to be challenging. Your parental roles may become blurry and confusing for everyone involved. What should you know about living together with children before you get married?
June 17, 2009:
The Truth Project
A person’s worldview is the foundation for their morals and values. But in spite of all the technology and science today, people are still searching for truth. Find out about the Truth Project and what it can do to help you find your life perspective.
June 16, 2009:
Dads Can Bond Too
Mothers tend to be more natural at caring for newborns since they are responsible for the day to day feedings and diaper changes. Some fathers stay in the background and let mom do the work. Learn why it’s valuable for dads to bond with their babies too.
June 15, 2009:
Underage Difference
Age matters when it comes to teen romance. It is not uncommon for a young girl to want to date an older man in his mid 20’s. What can you do if your teenager desires a relationship with someone out of her age range?
June 12, 2009:
Mommy, I’m Fat!
What do you do when your three-year-old says she’s fat? As a parent, you may start to panic thinking that she’s going to have an eating disorder! We’ll tell you what to do if your little one questions her unique shape and size.
June 11, 2009:
A Date with Daughter
There is a strong bond between fathers and daughters. As a dad, there’s no greater way to strengthen that bond than to take your little girl out on a date. We’ll give you some pointers on how to make your sweet princess know that she is the most loved girl in the world.
June 10, 2009:
Endorsing Media Messages
Most people say that a horror film or crude comedy won’t affect them personally if they don’t reenact what they see. But by seeing these movies, we may be supporting the messages they send. Find out why your entertainment choices should be made with your values and morals in mind.
June 9, 2009:
Obnoxious Friends
When your child reaches the pre-teen years, they can begin to hang out with friends you don’t approve of. Suddenly, they can change from a sweet, obedient girl or boy to a teen with an attitude. How can you encourage your child to choose friends with good values?
June 8, 2009:
Teaching Compassion
When a child turns three or four, they start to realize that they are not the center of the universe. A whole new world is around them and they begin to notice people in need. What can you do to help your kids grow into compassionate, loving adults?
Dr.
Bill Maier is Focus on the Family's Vice-President, Psychologist
in Residence. A child and family psychologist, he acts as a media
spokesperson for Focus on a variety of family-related issues.