Seven Steps to Forgiveness
Quick pointers from author R.T. Kendall.
The following is a summary/outline of the points made by guest R.T. Kendall on our radio program "Finding True Forgiveness."
Seven Steps to Forgiveness
What Forgiveness is Not
Seven Steps to Forgiveness
- Do not let anyone know what someone said about, or did to you.
- Do not allow anyone to be afraid of your or intimidated by you.
- Allow them to forgive themselves and not feel guilty.
- Let them save face.
- Protect them from their darkest secret and greatest fear.
- It is a lifelong commitment.
- Pray for them to be blessed.
What Forgiveness is Not
- Approval of what they did.
- Excusing what they did.
- Justifying what they did.
- Pardoning what they did.
- Reconciliation.
- Denying what they did.